Let's Talk About Sex, Baby
Moving right along ... since my last couple of posts have been sexually oriented, I figured I might as well delve into something I've been wanting to talk about. I should say before I start that those of you who might be squeamish or offended by frank sexual discussion, please do not read any further and please do not send me any hate mail. If you can't handle it, don't read on. You have been warned.
I have always loved pleasing a man orally (notice I didn't use the cruder description, for a very specific reason -- I don't believe there's anything crude about it). Ever since I was a teenager and started developing those raging hormones, I was always preoccupied with the thought of oral sex. Like kissing (although I didn't get to view it on t.v. or in the movies back then, before I had access to porn), I just always thought it was something I would be naturally gifted at. I believe that my mouth is just as important a sexual part as my pussy, if not more so. The thing about oral sex that is so exquisite is that's it's visible. I'm not knocking sexual intercourse, by any means, although I have to admit on the whole it doesn't turn me on as much. When a man is inside you, you can't see what he's doing, and neither can he. On the other hand, when you're sucking him, he can see everything and you can see everything. I think that's what makes it more exciting.
A man's penis is a beautiful thing. The more men you are with, you begin to see how every single one is different, just like a snowflake. No two penises are alike. :-) Each one has its own special characteristics, but of course there are some that are universal. Some are longer than others, some are thicker than others, some are circumcised, some aren't (I prefer the circumcised ones, myself, I just think they look better). My favourite part, of course, is the head. I just love the shape of it ... it's kind of tapered, a little bit round. You can see that it has been miraculously designed to both look visually appealing, and for practical purposes, for easier insertion into a woman's vagina. I just love playing with the head of a man's penis with my lips and my tongue, and watching it ooze and drip when he gets excited. But anyway, each penis has its own landscape, and each man has his own particular preferences in how you pleasure him. Another thing that turns me on so much about oral sex is the sounds of it ... the slurping, chirping, sounds of the actual sucking, and the sighing, moaning, groaning, whispering of the man you are with, asking you to suck harder, or slower, or lick him, or whatever.
I've been told many times that I am really good at giving head (okay, there I used the cruder description because it seemed to fit). And I believe I am, because I actually enjoy doing it. A lot of women I've talked to told me they can't stand it and can't understand why I like it. I should actually qualify this by saying that I talked to my teenage and 20-something girlfriends about this a long time ago, unfortunately I haven't had the chance to have much frank sexual discussion with other women these days. But anyway, they always told me they thought it was gross. "Ewww, they pee from that thing!" they would say. Uh, yeah. So do we, girls, and they go down on us too. I have to admit, though, that the one thing I do not like about giving head is the swallowing. Uh uh. Won't do it, sorry. Not unless I'm REALLY turned on. Despite my love of oral sex, I have to admit I have never acquired a taste for semen and don't see myself acquiring one in the future. The actual eruption turns me on, but not the taste. I've heard that a man's diet affects the taste of his semen but I can't imagine what he would eat that would actually make it taste good. Maybe chocolate? :-)
Anyway, there's nothing I like better than lying a naked man down on the bed and just giving him a little bit of heaven on earth. And when I make love to him like that, I also like to make sure I'm always carressing other parts of him too, his nipples, his stomach, his thighs ... I don't neglect anything. And afterwards, I love to be rewarded with a good hard pounding. :-) So far in my life, I've only met one man whose talents at oral sex were as prolific as my own (sorry to sound egotistical, but it's true). And just my luck, he dumped me. So ... I'll keep searching for my oral equal.
I've often wondered what it feels like for a man to have a blowjob. I don't want to be a man, but just once, I would like to know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a blowjob. Just so I would know how I'm making him feel, I guess. I'm sure there are more aspects of oral sex than just the feel of the woman's mouth or tongue on him that turns him on. Seeing a pretty face next to his erect penis, licking him up and down, sucking him. It must be mind-blowing (pardon the pun).
I have always loved pleasing a man orally (notice I didn't use the cruder description, for a very specific reason -- I don't believe there's anything crude about it). Ever since I was a teenager and started developing those raging hormones, I was always preoccupied with the thought of oral sex. Like kissing (although I didn't get to view it on t.v. or in the movies back then, before I had access to porn), I just always thought it was something I would be naturally gifted at. I believe that my mouth is just as important a sexual part as my pussy, if not more so. The thing about oral sex that is so exquisite is that's it's visible. I'm not knocking sexual intercourse, by any means, although I have to admit on the whole it doesn't turn me on as much. When a man is inside you, you can't see what he's doing, and neither can he. On the other hand, when you're sucking him, he can see everything and you can see everything. I think that's what makes it more exciting.
A man's penis is a beautiful thing. The more men you are with, you begin to see how every single one is different, just like a snowflake. No two penises are alike. :-) Each one has its own special characteristics, but of course there are some that are universal. Some are longer than others, some are thicker than others, some are circumcised, some aren't (I prefer the circumcised ones, myself, I just think they look better). My favourite part, of course, is the head. I just love the shape of it ... it's kind of tapered, a little bit round. You can see that it has been miraculously designed to both look visually appealing, and for practical purposes, for easier insertion into a woman's vagina. I just love playing with the head of a man's penis with my lips and my tongue, and watching it ooze and drip when he gets excited. But anyway, each penis has its own landscape, and each man has his own particular preferences in how you pleasure him. Another thing that turns me on so much about oral sex is the sounds of it ... the slurping, chirping, sounds of the actual sucking, and the sighing, moaning, groaning, whispering of the man you are with, asking you to suck harder, or slower, or lick him, or whatever.
I've been told many times that I am really good at giving head (okay, there I used the cruder description because it seemed to fit). And I believe I am, because I actually enjoy doing it. A lot of women I've talked to told me they can't stand it and can't understand why I like it. I should actually qualify this by saying that I talked to my teenage and 20-something girlfriends about this a long time ago, unfortunately I haven't had the chance to have much frank sexual discussion with other women these days. But anyway, they always told me they thought it was gross. "Ewww, they pee from that thing!" they would say. Uh, yeah. So do we, girls, and they go down on us too. I have to admit, though, that the one thing I do not like about giving head is the swallowing. Uh uh. Won't do it, sorry. Not unless I'm REALLY turned on. Despite my love of oral sex, I have to admit I have never acquired a taste for semen and don't see myself acquiring one in the future. The actual eruption turns me on, but not the taste. I've heard that a man's diet affects the taste of his semen but I can't imagine what he would eat that would actually make it taste good. Maybe chocolate? :-)
Anyway, there's nothing I like better than lying a naked man down on the bed and just giving him a little bit of heaven on earth. And when I make love to him like that, I also like to make sure I'm always carressing other parts of him too, his nipples, his stomach, his thighs ... I don't neglect anything. And afterwards, I love to be rewarded with a good hard pounding. :-) So far in my life, I've only met one man whose talents at oral sex were as prolific as my own (sorry to sound egotistical, but it's true). And just my luck, he dumped me. So ... I'll keep searching for my oral equal.
I've often wondered what it feels like for a man to have a blowjob. I don't want to be a man, but just once, I would like to know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a blowjob. Just so I would know how I'm making him feel, I guess. I'm sure there are more aspects of oral sex than just the feel of the woman's mouth or tongue on him that turns him on. Seeing a pretty face next to his erect penis, licking him up and down, sucking him. It must be mind-blowing (pardon the pun).
posted by emily pound at 8:05 AM
9 Comments:
What a wonderful post. What a wonderful attitude and fresh, liberated approach to fellatio. As a guy who has suffered from a dearth of women who have any interest in inhaling a man's penis, only a few who tolerate it and only one or two who enjoyed it, it is spectacular and bittersweet to listen to your mindset.
Your discussion of your teenage and 20s friends reaction to your amazement and delight in the wonder of your oral explorations mirrored almost exactly my suggestion to my teenage and 20s friends how beautiful a fat girl looked. I too stopped sharing that nugget of information with them.
I know there's a lot of discussion about women swallowing or not swallowing the man's semen. I'm sure people feel strongly about this.. but from my perspective, once it erupts through the tip of my penis.. I'm done with it.. and its ultimate destination is of no further interest to me.
It has always seemed weird to me that some women like to smear it on their faces, breasts or other parts of their bodies.. but, as I've said.. once I'm done with it.. whatever makes you happy.
On the flip side, I absolutely love to give women oral pleasure, both because of my general interest in giving my partners pleasure and, well, because I really enjoy it. I love the taste, the smell, the messiness, the softness, the way in which a tiny flick of the tongue can cause a very large body to shudder, twist and arch, the ability to take someone to a place that is so otherworldly that they feel like their skin has turned inside out.
The magic of women's ability to reach orgasm after orgasm without having to recharge and rest is amazing. The way in which the orgasms have their own styles and depths of release, from small minor moaning orgasms akin to popping bubble paper up to mind blowing cosmic overloads which leave a woman in the petit mort nether world requiring a man's engulfing arms to bring her back to the world of others. All of these things are available with a bit of tongue, nimble fingers, lips and teeth, guided by a mind attuned to a partners physiognomy and more important her physical and spiritual feedback.
I too wonder what it must feel like for a woman to receive this sort of an amorous assault on her love centers, elevating her body and mind to a different plane.
However, I've found that to give really good oral sex to a woman I have to focus on her, and in the rare cases where a woman and I have tried to practice cunnilingus, have failed miserably. Either I enjoy her ministrations so much I lose my way with her pleasuring or my pleasuring of her makes me unreceptive to her attempts at ministring to me(not sure if its me not receiving or her overwhelmed by my pleasuring her). I wonder if anyone else has had this "problem"?
dear hugehuge fan,
so glad you enjoyed my post. I've always felt conflicted about sharing my views because as I said in my post, the women I have talked to about it in the past reacted unfavourably. But, I'm sure there are many other women out there who feel the same way I do.
I wish I could say I've had a lot of "returns on my investment" in the sense that the men in my life have given me the same amount of pleasure as I have them, but unfortunately, my experience has been pretty abysmal in that respect. Have I just been extraordinarily unlucky to have been paired up with men who are either extremely inept or indifferent? Like I said, there was only one guy I've been with who was really good at it, and just my luck, it didn't last.
So true. All of my friends look at me like I'm crazy too. But there's something about it that drives me crazy. Love knowing I can do that to a man. Thanks for letting me know I'm not the only girl out there that like giving oral. :-)
no problem, anonymous. enjoy enjoy. I wish you would've posted your comment with your name, though. your love of giving oral sex is nothing to be ashamed of. celebrate it! :-)
Emily Pound said...
no problem, anonymous. enjoy enjoy. I wish you would've posted your comment with your name, though. your love of giving oral sex is nothing to be ashamed of. celebrate it! :-)
1:24 PM
lol Not ashamed, not at all, just I know someone I know could read this and there are certain someones (I link you from my blog) that I'd rather didn't know that kind of intimate detail of my life lol Defending myself from lectures that's all.
I hear ya. Thanks for linking me from your blog.
hey anonymous, I forgot to ask you ...
I'd like to check out your blog. email me at the address on my profile so you can send it to me privately (if you wish). don't worry, mum's the word. :-)
It's usually always mind-blowing but on the rare chance that it's with a woman who truly enjoys it, it's elevated to another degree, believe it or not. ;)
I'm sure it is. :-) Sometimes I think I'm a lot like Linda Lovelace's character in "Deep Throat" ... have you seen it? The premise being, that her clitoris is in her throat, and when she deep throats a man, it's like she's being fucked and she comes. Yes, oral sex turns me on THAT much.
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